What is Domestic Violence ~ Description

I am doing some research on domestic violence in order to have more knowledge so we can hopefully help this lady that I have just become aware of her situation.

If you are unsure if your situation applies or perhaps you are concerned for a friend here is a pretty good explanation or description.

I am looking into resources in Texas so if you know of any please let me know. Always remember when you step into these types of situations where abuse is active it is always dangerous and can't be taken lightly.

Love to all.


What Is Domestic Violence?

Domestic violence is behavior - emotional, psychological, physical, or sexual abuse - that one person in an intimate relationship uses in order to control the other. It takes many different forms and includes behavior such as threats, name-calling, isolation, withholding of money, actual or threatened physical harm and sexual assault. Most domestic violence is committed against women by their male partners. It also occurs in lesbian and gay relationships and is common in teenage dating relationships.

In a small number of cases, men are abused by female partners, but because 91 to 95 percent of all adult domestic violence assaults are perpetrated by men against their female partners, this booklet will refer to victims as female and abusers as male. In any case, every victim of domestic violence, whether female or male, gay or heterosexual, has the right to legal relief.

The following checklist may help you decide if you or someone you know is being abused. Does your partner:

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  constantly criticize you and your abilities as a spouse or partner, parent or employee?
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  behave in an over-protective manner or become extremely jealous?
  
• threaten to hurt you, your children, pets, family members, friends or himself?
  
• prevent you from seeing family or friends?
  
• get suddenly angry or "lose his temper"?
  
• destroy personal property or throw things around?
  
• deny you access to family assets like bank accounts, credit cards, or the car, orcontrol all finances and force you to account for what you spend?
  
• use intimidation or manipulation to control you or your children? hit, punch, slap, kick, shove, choke or bite you?
  
• prevent you from going where you want to, when you want to, and with whomever you want to?
  
• make you have sex when you don't want to or do things sexually that you don't want to do?
  
• humiliate or embarrass you in front of other people?
  

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, you may be a victim of domestic violence. You are not to blame and you are not alone - millions of women are abused by their partners every year. Not all acts of domestic violence are violations of the law. In any case, you need not face domestic violence alone. You deserve help, and help is available.

This was taken from The North Richland Hills Battered Women's Facility