He Saw The Best In Me..

He saw the best in me, when everyone else around could only see the worst in me…

How awesome and true is that? When other people have seen a shy, backward, overweight girl with little self esteem. God looked down and saw what I could be/can be. He sees the good in me!!

I love it that my life isn’t dependent on what others think or believe for me. My life is directed by God and He sees the very best in me, He sees things that I myself can’t even think or imagine for myself.

I’m having the time of my life right now. I feel like for the first time in years I’m totally in God’s Will. There have been times in the last bit that He led me through places in life that I didn’t understand but now looking back I can see His touch on my life all along. Every stop along the way, He was leading and directing and teaching me so many things.

Just thought I might say Thank You God!!!!

Just My Thoughts Today

I’m not a wise spiritual person that just has all the answers and words to encourage others. A friend I write just breaks my heart, asking for answers. They are going through a process and I wish it was easier or that I had answers but I don’t. They recently asked me to be real and they gave examples of things that have recently upset them. They have NO control over any of it but the bitterness and anger that spilled out of that letter made me sad. This person was a mentor of sorts to me for many years growing up and today the tables have turned and I’m trying to life their spirits and encourage them while they walk through the darkest trial of their life. I don’t understand it all because I wasn’t there and I try to be funny and make them smile for just a minute but it’s hard.

So this letter I was “real” as they asked. I talked about getting over bitterness and forgiveness for even those that did you wrong and family hurts, etc. I just wrote and then before I rethought it I mailed it then I told my Mom and she disagreed with my words and having mailed the letter but I did it from the heart. I was open and honest with my own life experiences and told stories of things that have happened to me. Yes, a much smaller scale than what this person has experienced but they were my dark days and the pain was intense at that time. I’ve not heard back and I’ve sent another letter I just hope I didn’t offend them to much, they asked me to be honest and I was. I had prayed about it so I can only believe that God was there.

Life is so strange with it’s twists and turns. As people we let the hurt that others throw our way shape us and influence us. We have to learn to accept it, and continue to love them through it all. One of the most important things I’ve learned in my 32 years is that my life is happier and healthier when I let it all go. I let the hurt and anger and bitterness go. I have to let it roll off like water on a ducks back. It’s not easy and sometimes I would LOVE to hold on to it and just have a BIG pity party and invite my friends, but all that does is hurt me. So I’ve learned you have to stand tall and strong even when you are attacked and you are innocent, stand tall and hold my head high and let God fight. It’s amazing how when you just move forward and let it all go, instead of you getting drug down those that are trying to drag you down end up on the down side because your life and example convict their spirits.

So life will roll on and we will continue to learn, love and live.

So Much Going On!!! Great Times!!!

So, the last few weeks have really been crazy busy for me and I’ve loved every moment of it. On top of choir practice every week the last few weeks life has just been crazy.

I haven’t talked much about my new church and how much I’m loving being there. I know alot of people disagree with my decision to make this move. I’ve heard all the comments and complaints and for the FIRST time in my life I’m doing this for ME! Plain and simple. I’ve not been this happy or involoved since I left the church I grew up in. DFC has been the place to bring hope and restoration to my soul. I’ve listened to preachers preach that in order to find freedom you had to let it all go. So I would pray and do my best to let it all go but it always hung on. Then I went to DFC where in 1 Sunday I found that the burden and pain and hurt I’ve felt for years went away in an instance. In 4-5 months I’ve been the happiest I’ve been in a long time. It’s refreshing to be involved in a music dept where the anointing is what they want. It’s not about anybody but Him!!! During practice a couple Monday nights ago we were going over The Blood for Easter and the presence of God came in that room and was so real!! We took time out to just worship God and thank Him for the Blood. That is what music is all about just pure worship to God.

Last Sunday there was an appreciation banquet for the Community Relations Ministry and I helped serve and all. I enjoyed it so much!! Hearing how that ministry is working to bring in the lost from Dallas. Great and awesome things are happening.

Then this past Saturday morning we had a Block Party, it was great fun!!! Cotton Candy, Hot Dogs, Popcorn, Face Painting, blow up houses for the kids and it was a good turn out.The kids had an absolute blast and then they wrapped it up with a candy rain!!! LOL, good times. Then we had to run and get ready for the Easter Service run through. When I left the church at 3:30 I was totally exhausted. LOL, then Teresa, Katie and I went and had Mexican food and did some shoe shopping. Didn’t find anything but we looked.

Sunday morning I was at the church at 8:30 for sound check and then a time of prayer for our service. The power of God was in that building. We had a time of worship and you could feel the presence of God so close. Then the Easter program part of the service and I think it all went great, I enjoyed being part of the choir and it felt like old times. The solos were good, Sis Kari & Kim and Bro. Toa, it just doesn’t get much better than that. Bro. Toa had it going on!! Then Bro Foster’s message on The Climb. All I can say is WOW!!! As he poured out his heart to the audience yesterday I believe healing came to broken souls. His testimony of his brother dying and his cancer touched hearts as he brought out that in the climb he would get dragged back down. He had someone build a very tall platform and they covered it to look like a mountain of sorts, really looked cool too. He climbed and stood on the top and preached a bit. It’s all about the climb. We get so caught up in our destination we don’t enjoy the journey. That message spoke such encouragement to my soul!!!

Then home to enjoy all the good food and fun with my aunts and their families!! We had a huge easter egg hunt and ate until we waddled!!! LOL. Life is so good!!! I’m blessed!!

Now to see what God has for me in the future. I’m excited and looking forward to whatever He leads me into!!! For the first time in a long time the Future is BRIGHT!!!

Peoples Opinions

So recently I was at a wedding to celebrate a relative getting married and I learned what type of Christian I do not want to be. A in person, live and up close lesson. I’ve made changes in my life lately not because of issues with people, but because of issues within myself that I struggled with. I struggled for almost 10 years to find peace, happiness, joy, victory and a place to really belong. I found places to rest but never found that place where I belonged where I could grow and become what God had in store for me.

So, I made a move that has given me all that I’ve been searching for. Recently I discovered that I had let my dreams and desires die and I feel like it’s all coming back. I’m beginning to rebuild my dreams and I’m growing in my walk with God. It’s like I’m a flower that was just a bloom and I have found a place to settle and unfold. I’m happy, I love life, I’m excited about church and God again and it’s been a loooooong time since I could really say that. Plus, I’m getting involved and having a great time.

Well, yesterday my path crossed with people who don’t like the change I made. It disturbs me that they would have the audacity to pull someone aside and make a comment that would put me in a bad light. LOL. You know? Who are YOU to judge if my church teaches truth or does not and Who do you think you are to judge the holiness of my church when you have NEVER been there???? It’s funny to me that ministers find a way to justify their opinions of judgment. I’m happy and that is what matters. What is REALLY funny is this. The comment regarded demanding that an individual didn’t leave and go to a different church because their “current” church “preaches truth”. OK, here is the laugh for the day. My church and the other persons church believe the same way. Their Pastor and my new Pastor are on just about the same page. So be careful when you judge and divide. LOL. You might not know what you are talking about.

What I learned yesterday at a wedding was this. I want to be Christ-like and love everyone for who they are. I may not agree with their ways but that is OK because I’m just a human. I’ll let God be the one to make the big decisions. All your opinions did was lower you in my eyes. If we can’t love each other and over look our mistakes than how can we expect that kind of love from God?

As a kid/teenager I had big dreams and they all died but I sit here tonight writing this and thinking, they are coming back. I don’t have huge dreams but I keep finding the pieces to old dreams and desires peeking out at me and as I reclaim each piece someday they will all come together and I will be exactly what I need and want to be.

Windows Live and I hope I don’t regret this. LOL.

Well, this is my first post since my laptop when down. I bought a new unit and I love it. I ordered it with Windows Live on it and it pulls all my stuff into Windows Live which is really cool BUT also a bit scary. It links to my blog and so I’m testing it right now. Fingers and toes are crossed that it will work right. LOL. Watch for more updates soon!!!

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Just Hurts

They lie awake and wonder why no one really cares.
Everybody gave them their fear,
To a caring listening ear
And now they just lie crying because no one cares.

Why does it all hurt so
Does the pain ere go away
Will life ever get to normal
And keep the pain away

They run hard to distance from the hurt
Close down
Ignore the pain
Numb your mind.

He Will Go All The Way

OK, so today I read this little poem or whatever written by my aunt, Stephanie Pollay.

You have hurt me in the past, yet I hold no grudge.
You have turned your back on me, but I stood behind you.
You have played a part in things I begged you not to do
You've walked away from me....

When you come back, I will meet you halfway
Because... I love you!

She wrote the poem and in her mind it was God speaking. I read it and gained a whole different perspective. I read it as person to person. As people we have those that hurt us and turn on hus and do things we wish they would not. Yet, even then we don't hold a grudge and we stand behind them still to support and encourage.

My mind goes to one of my very best friends and my friendship. This person made some rather poor decisions and I warned her against them. She was an adult and made her own ways. When it all fell apart I was there to help pick up the pieces and start again. I never supported her ways but I was always her friend. True friendship is what I call it. Regardless of what was done or said, I was always there. There were even times when I made my opinions known to her and she became so angry she wouldn't speak to me. Yet when it all was said and done we were still friends. That is because friendship is not based on actions or if we are perfect people or not. It's a deep love that does not have conditions.

Take a family that is torn apart by assumptions and neither side wants to be the one to tear down the walls of hurt and deceit. Love should never be conditional or used to toy with another person. Love should be able to overcome every hardship.

Then my mind drifts to a situation a dear friend of mine is in. What a cost to pay.

My aunt said the poem in her head is like the prodigal son and how the father met him halfway. I've heard it preached over and over in terms of God being the father and us the son and God will meet us in the middle. Today for some reason, it really reached in my spirit and begin to grow. For some reason I couldn't get it off my mind, I begin to wonder about that parable and did it really say they met in the middle? I read that parable of the prodigal son and guess what??? It does NOT say they met in the middle. It says (Luke) that the son said to himself that he would go up to his father and offer to be a servent in his fathers house. He headed home and when he was still afar off the father saw him and ran to him and kissed him. It doesn't say the son ran or that the son met his father in the middle. The father saw him afar and ran. I'm not sure why it strikes me like this. It hit me like a stone, a revelation I guess that we don't have to meet God in the middle. We just have to say to ourselves, we are headed to God and he is waiting for us and when He sees us begin to make our way toward Him, I'm sure tears come to His eyes as He says there is my son or daughter and He runs to US, not US to HIM.

Here is where it really got me, if God were to have met us in the middle... We would have had to go to Calvary, correct? To meet in the middle would have put us at Calvary. Instead God went all the way for us. That really got to me that the Love of God is so far reaching that when we can't reach up, it reaches down to us.

To me that is the best love.

On the other hand of that, this same poem spoke to me of forgiveness. I've heard so man people say with words that they forgive but really don't forgive. Forgiveness is letting it go when we are hurt or wronged. Forgiveness is sometimes never getting an apology but loving them anyways. Forgiveness is overlooking the things that don't really matter. Forgiveness is reaching out to those who turned their backs on you. It's not letting issues get between you but climbing over the little speedbumps because they really don't matter. It's letting all the bitterness go and just looking forward. It's something we have to chose to do and it's hard and sometimes it hurts and it doesn't seem far... Forgive!!!